Life can seem so damn complicated. But guess what, it’s actually really fucking simple. Cut out the bullshit and do what you want for you. Be nice but also take no shit. Be confident in who you are and your decisions. Take care of yourself first to then take care of others. When you decide to say no to all the shit that doesn’t serve you or fit with your values, you open up room for all the things that do.
If it is so darn simple why the hell do we all struggle with it so much? Because society builds up expectations, and we then set unrealistic standards for ourselves because we think we have to, not because we want to. But girl, let me tell you, it’s freaking marvelous when you decide to cut that shit out and start living life the way you want to live it.
We are always told “you only live once” and as much as I hate that quote, I gotta agree with it. Why are you causing yourself stress and anxiety when you can just confidentiality make your own decisions, stand by it, be polite and move the fuck on!
Stressing about something you don’t want to do? Don’t do it. Scared to tell someone how you really feel? Be honest and polite and say why you need to. Made a mistake? Own it and move on. Insecure about something about yourself? Know that it is you and be proud of that.
Remember that your life, is just that, YOUR LIFE. You deserve to be your best, feel your best, and to do whatever the hell you damn please. Everyone in the world is going to have a different opinion about something, that’s what makes us human. That’s what makes us uniquely ourselves. That’s our superpower. Don’t waste your time trying to be someone or trying to please someone. Use your time to find out who you are, what you want and what you need. And then stick with that, be proud of that, because you my dear, deserve the world, and only you can get you that!